Posted by on November 11, 2016
Here are some helpful tips when you are invited to dinner at someone’s house:
• Do not come empty handed. A bottle of wine or flowers in a vase are always welcome gifts. Try to bring something that your hostess does not have to take time to deal with, such as finding a vase for your flowers.
• Offer to help with any preparations, from setting the table, to assisting with cooking, to keeping a young child(ren) occupied.
• Do not sit down at the table until your host invites you to.
• Put your napkin on your lap, and look to the hostess to begin eating.
• Honestly compliment the cook on some aspect of the meal after a few bites.
• Try to stay away from any controversial or offensive topics, such as politics or religion.
• Do not tell any off-color or racy jokes.
• If there are children present at the table, ask them questions to give them a chance to join the mealtime conversation.
• Give everyone at the table a chance to participate in the conversation – do not dominate it and do all of the talking.
• Only discuss things that are pleasant. Now is not the time to bring up anything embarrassing or uncomfortable for your hosts.
• Thank the cook for dinner after the meal is finished.
• Offer to help clear the table.
• Take note of how long you should stay after dinner. You do not want to “eat and run,” but you also do not want to overstay your welcome.
• Follow up with a phone call or note the next day to say thank you.
• Reciprocate the dinner invitation as soon as you can, by inviting your hosts to your house, or treat them to a dinner out.
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